The Beautiful Snow

Some say it's too cold. They find any way to make the weather a negative thing. I say it's beautiful. Every climate is an expression of life. God made all four seasons for us to enjoy. For example, watching the snow fall from the clouds is such a blessing. It's a beauty, that should not be taken for granted. The snow flows freely through the sky. It doesn't worry where it lands. It allows the wind to blow it any direction. It has no care in the world.

Snowflakes come in all shapes and sizes, but that doesn't bother them. They bounce around together, flying in the air, dancing to find a place to land. Falling fearlessly, with no reservations, just happy to finally join others and create great beauty. Have you ever watched the fun that snowflakes have? Take time to appreciate winter. Look out the window and dream. Be free like the snowflakes, and don't worry where life takes you...

~Appreciate nature and remember to keep it happy!

Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW

Author of "Charcters of Lust"

Sponsored by The Romance Cafe, where everything on the menu is sexy, like me...

I Thought it was You

When I received the call, my heart dropped, I couldn't talk. Disbelief covered my being.
Tears rolled down my face. I looked in the mirror and couldn't believe what I was seeing.

And to think I was angry with you. Didn't want to hear what you had to say, putting off our love for another day.

Not talking to you, ignoring your calls and texts. You made me mad and I didn't want to hear anything you said.

Staring at myself in the glass, I repeated, "Why was I so selfish? Why did I let pride get in the way?" The only thing I could think of was revenge and making you pay.

Hurt someone you claim to love? That's not functional. You get what you give.
And now I would do anything just for you to live...

Realizing I loved you more than I would ever admit. Reminiscing about the time we spent.

This experience has changed me. I remember death now. Reality is here.
It doesn't feel good. The pain is real. And oh how I want you near.

Cherish life. Tell your loved ones you love them. Talk things out. And don't live with regrets. Express yourself while a person still has breath.

I love you and I don't care who knows. The game is over. Okay, you win.
Stubbornness gets you nowhere. I know you still want to be my friend...

Hurt no more. I will never leave or dismiss you.
You've taught me a valuable lesson. Now, I know what to do.

You are still here. Thank God, I still have time left; time to tell you how I really feel. You don't have to wonder now you know the real deal.

I will practice what I preach, because this near death experience has made me appreciate your touch. Let me end this by saying, "I love you so much."

Because I thought it was you. I will never take you for granted again. Join me and allow our hearts to mend...

~Cherish Life. Treat others with respect, love, and gratitude. Never leave angry or upset. Express yourself and exit with love. Live with no regrets. And remember to keep it happy!

In Memory of Kirkland Randall. Thank you for placing smiles on our faces and making us look and feel beautiful. We love you, you will be missed dearly...

Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Published Author
Sponsored by The Romance Cafe, where everything on the menu is sexy, like me...

Love Heals the World

Love is patient.

Love is kind.

Love is happy.

Love is forgiving.

Love is soothing.

Love feels good.

Love is free.

Love heals the world.

When you give love, you receive love. Relationships are true reflections of you. Take a look at your behavior, if you are not acting out of love you'll see it. Learn to love, love unselfishly, love unconditionally, love even when it doesn't feel good.

Everyone needs love, and some need more than others. As you grow you can ignore negativity and love regardless. If you only give love, it has to return to you. Don't spend the rest of your life treating others bad because they treated you bad or attempting to hurt someone because they hurt you. Stand up and show love. Heal the world with love...

~Remember to keep it happy.
Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW author of "Taste of Lust"

Sponsored by The Romance Cafe, where everything on the menu is sexy, like me....

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What is an Alter Ego Affair? You're Invited!

What is an alter ego? The dictionary states, "An alter ego (Latin, "the other I") is a second self, which is believed to be distinct from a person's normal or original personality. A person with an alter ego is said to lead a double life." So who are you, when you are not yourself? Who do you want to be secretly? What is your deepest lust? Dig deep and there you'll find your alter ego, the other you... For example: super hero's, naughty nurses, domanatrix, goddesses, Marilyn Monroe, gangsta, an innocent school girl, biker boy or girl, a Gesha, a pimp, stripper, a cook, or the unique person who's living inside of you...

Love is in the Air! Come share the passion with The Romance Cafe. 'This is 'An Alter Ego Affair' so come dressed to ~ 'Unveil Your Inner Beauty & Sexiness'!... Enjoy the delicious "pink panties" martini, cocktails, hor d'oeurves, exciting door prizes, games, & an extraordinary romance showcase! Experience beauty & bliss with a fabulous fashion show extravaganza! Tickle your senses & join us for an evening of sweet seduction! Men & Women invited, Couples encouraged, as we unlock the secrets to a healthy & fun romance/relationship. Lotions, Potions, & Lingerie...Glittering & Gorgeous, You'll see! Naughty or Nice, come in your boldest outfit! Guest Appearance by LeBlanc, author of "Taste of Lust" and "Characters of Lust". Remember, the most powerful weapon in the world is the human soul on fire! ღ•ʚįɞ

Bring your friends...

When: Saturday, February 25, 2012

Time: 4pm to 7pm

Where: The Lingers Martini Bar

4142 W. 167th St, Oak Forest, IL 60452

(near Country Club Hills)

The Love I Took For Granted

The Love I took for granted. I thought it would always be around. I allowed my ego to inflate, interchanging kindness for lust. Refusing to give love, selfishly pleasing myself instead of taking time to love back. The Love I took for granted.


The Love I took for granted. Now that it's gone, I miss it. I foolishly thought it would stick around. It warned me, but I was sitting on my throne refusing to believe that anyone would leave me. The Love I took for granted.


The Love I took for granted. I treated it bad. I showed no respect. I was too afraid to be my sensitive, compassionate self. Too worried about my macho image, wanting no one to see me love. The Love I took for granted.


The Love I took for granted. Why did I fall asleep on it? Why didn't I cherish it? It loved me unconditionally. It made me smile. It was a crazy love, I have to admit, but now that its gone I miss it. The Love I took for granted.


~Appreciate the unique Love in your life. Listen to their needs, wants, and desires. Learn to compromise. Remember, emotions change by the minute and everyone moves on when "Love" no longer feels good. Never take Love for granted.


Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW
Author of "Taste of Lust" and "Characters of Lust"
Founder of The Romance Cafe Home Party Business
CEO and Owner of Smarty Pants Village

Not Worried What Others Think of Me

I'm free! Free to explore different things. It’s like I'm flying with big healthy wings. Not worried what others think of me, I'm free!

I'm free! Free to do the things that bring me joy. It doesn't matter if it’s never been done before. I live to receive pleasure and give it in return. Not worried what others think of me, I'm free!

I'm free! If I want to be wild and adventurous, that's okay too. I love my body and I'm in control of what I do. Life is always changing and so am I. I'll try new things instead of wondering why. Not worried what others think of me, I'm free!

I'm free! I live with no regrets. Every task that was done, you better believe I enjoyed it and had great fun. Not worried what others think of me, I'm free!

I'm free! An inspiring soul is what I be. I'm enjoying life's journey and what God has for me. Whatever I ask, I shall receive. The highest goals I will achieve. Not worried what others think of me, I'm free!

Free your inner soul. Live without judgment. Pursue success and don't ever worry about what others think. If it brings you joy for the moment it’s worth it. Please yourself and be free!

~Remember to keep it happy...


Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Author of "Characters of Lust"
CEO

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Sex Sounds

Sounds enhance intimacy. Our bodies become aroused by what we hear. A transformation of sexual pleasure takes place when seducing noises invade the soul. The sweet sounds release endorphins in your brain, which causes natural juices to flow freely in all the right places (wink! wink!) Slurping, kissing, sucking, moaning, groaning, licking, gasping, and heavy breathing tend to magnify foreplay and any acts of seduction. For example, when performing oral sex, make as much sound as you can. It will heighten the moment and give endless pleasure. Pay attention to how your partner responds to those sounds. You may be giving them one of the most fulfilling sexual experiences of their life.

~Remember to keep it happy...


Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Author of "Taste of Lust"
CEO

Sponsored by The Romance Cafe, where everything on the menu is sexy, like me...

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Only I can make me Happy

You saw me happy. Happiness you just couldn't stand. You thought you were the source of my happiness, but to your surprise you were not. Only I can make me happy.

You see, I love me. I love me from head to toe, inside and out. When I look in the mirror I smile. Only I can make me happy.


Dont fret, you'll find someone else's happiness to control, but not mine. I'm free from you, and free from the world's definition of happiness. I do the things that bring me true joy. I live in the moment with no regrets. And if it doesn't feel good to me, I don't partake in it. You see, its all about me. Only I can make me happy.


My happiness is here to stay, so if you're waiting for it to leave, you might as well go away. I changed the way I think, changed the things I say, changed the material I read, and changed the people I surround myself with. I have a true, positive transformation with a new outlook on life. You see, I love me. Only I can make me happy.

~Love yourself first and keep it happy.

Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Published Author, Business Owner, Motivational Speaker

Sponsored by The Romance Cafe, where everything on the menu is sexy, like me...

www.theromancecafe.com

Good Girls Don't Go all the Way

"No pussy for you," is what I prided myself on. "If I keep this good, tight, plump, juicy coochie to myself I can't get hurt. I'm keeping my emotions in my pocket." I didn't want him to touch me, didn't want any type of intimacy, and didn't want to love, because good girls don't go all the way. Good girls kept there goodies to themselves. "My vagina is sacred, and no parts of you are going in it, unless I say so." You see I had to control it all, wouldn't let the natural...just take place, because good girls don't go all the way.

Yes, I let some great ones pass my way. They were handsome, respected me, loved me, I have to say, but good girls didn't go all the way. Big ones, long ones, full of girth, none of that mattered, I knew my worth. I had to fight my feelings and stick to my gun, because good girls couldn't have that much fun. I was young, free, and ready to do the deeds, but what would people think of me?

I released a little of my control, allowing the body to take hold. "Let him taste it if you must, but don't allow your feelings to digest too much, because good girls don't go all the way." What a selfish lover I was, I have to admit. I'd sit there and let him eat me without a simple touch. "You can look, you can reminsce about it in your mind, and I may let you taste it, but good girls don't go all the way."



"Sometimes I taste myself, because good girls go all the way..."

Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Author of Taste of Lust, CEO, Co-Founder of The Romance Cafe

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Sexy Like Me

What is sexy? Sexy is everything you posess. Its your style, your signature, the way you walk, the way you express yourself, sexy is simply you. When you truly learn to love yourself you can create a new, sexy you. Have fun loving the things you hated in the past. Appreciate you for who you are now and work on the things you want to change. I'm stressing, gratitude is one of the keys to life, therefore you must be grateful for the person who stands before you in the mirror. God doesn't make junk or imperfections, it is crucial that you remember this. Make a song, post it on notes, yell it out loud. "I am beautiful!" "I Love me! "I am sexy!"





On your journey to sexiness, remember to keep it happy.





Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Published Author, CEO


The Romance Cafe





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Stand in the Mirror Naked

Do you want to re-create you? Re-invent you? Make you over? Well, its time for change. Everyday we look in the mirror and we complain about the person who stands before us. I'm too short... I'm too tall...I'm too stout...I'm too skinny...my nose is too big...my thighs jiggle.. I have three stomachs...my hair is a mess...my skin is blemished...I'm too dark...I'm too light...,and I'm not pretty or handsome, are amongst the many self criticizing statements made daily.

Let me be the first to challenge you to change your way of thinking. The first step is to be happy with who you are. Start by loving the things you hate. Stand in the mirror naked, and kiss your flaws goodbye. Replace your negative remarks with positive uplifting affirmations. For example, instead of saying, "I'm fat," state, "I'm the most sexy, voluptuous woman alive." You've got to do the work - from inside. When you change your perception of you everything else will fall right into place. Remember you are your biggest self-critic and if you don't love yourself who will?

Talk to you soon and don't forget to keep it happy.

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Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Author, CEO
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