Are you Afraid to Love?

"I see" myself in a new light.. such a beautiful light. I recognize that "I am” the source of my happiness. The more “I love”, the safer “I am”. “I go” beyond anyone's limitations or destructive criticism of me. Most of us have such a strong habit of judgment and criticism of others that they cannot see through "breaking the habit." Criticism breaks down the inner spirit and never seems to change a thing only creating anger, self hatred, and neglect. You know “I feel” we have a choice between LOVE and FEAR. Most fear change, fear of not changing, fear of taking a chance, fear of not taking a chance, fear of loving, fear of not loving, fear of intimacy and then fear of being alone. We have a fear of letting people know what we need genuinely, and who we are. Then here is the big one...the fear of letting go of the past! Then on the other hand we have love. Love is the miracle of life! Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives, and “I am” not speaking of vanity or of being arrogant or full of ourselves; that is not love. That is a form of being afraid as well. “I am reflecting on the love of having the utmost respect for self and gratitude for everything around you, realizing the world is a reflection of you. One thing “I have” learned is to FEEL the fear and DO IT ANYWAY..GO right INTO IT and THROUGH IT! As “I grow” and fine tune “my best” only gets better. I have accepted that “my decisions” and “my lessons” are always perfect for me and that “I will always express and attract LOVE wherever “I GO” and “IN” whatever “I DO”.

Tasha Dangerfield, LC, CEO, Co-Founder

The Romance Cafe

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The Trees are Beautiful and so are You

Have you looked at the trees lately? I walk daily, but I never paid attention to the trees until I started my journey on gratitude. Appreciation for nature and the things around you are crucial in finding true happiness. When you truly love yourself you are grateful for you and everything in your circle; nature appears brand new. The simple things in life like singing birds, green grass, and trees catch your eye.

I watched the wind blow through the branches on a unique tree with few leaves and I thought to myself, "how beautiful." Then I noticed the tree planted next to the first one I observed. It was the same tree but it was shorter. The next tree was taller and the leaves were fuller. We are like trees. All of us are the same beautiful specie, but different. Love yourself and respect the unique qualities you possess.

Appreciate nature. Appreciate life. Appreciate the uniqueness that you bring. Love yourself.

~LeBlanc author of "Taste of Lust"
~CEO The Romance Cafe



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The Romance Cafe Appreciates You

I woke up this morning, thank you Lord. Gratitude is flowing through my head. I appreciate life and I'm thankful for the people and things in my circle. Life is amazing now. I realize that gratitude is the key to happiness, love, success, and prosperity. When you can totally be appreciative for what you have (the small simple things that we usually take for granted) your life will flourish and you will be blessed with more.


Begin each day with gratitude. Wake up and start thanking God for all the things you are grateful for. Make an ABUNDANCE list. Write down 50 things you are thankful for. For example, I am grateful, for the sun shining on my arms, my daughter's smiling face, hot water, a home with air condition, a healthy body, ect... Being thankful for where you are in your life will bring a smile to your face. It will change your thinking too. Focusing on all the blessings in your life leaves no room for negativity. Remember you can't be grateful and unhappy at the same time.


Another part of gratitude is giving. When you can give without expecting anything in return you are truly displaying gratitude. When you give it comes back to you, your blessings triple. Try doing some of these simple acts of kindness:
1)Pay for some ones meal at McDonald's.
2)Leave a huge tip after dinner.
3)Hold the door open for a stranger.
4)Give compliments.
5)Smile and offer comforting words.
6)Pay the toll for a stranger behind you in line.
7)Pay for some ones groceries.
8)Buy lunch for a friend or stranger.
9)Send someone a drink.
10)Buy a friend their favorite candy bar or chips.
11)Tell everyone you appreciate them and incorporate thanking individuals in advance.


Implement gratitude in your life and watch success implant itself on you.


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~LeBlanc, the best selling author of "Taste of Lust."

Who's Loving You?

Are you happy with you? Look at yourself in the mirror and love everything about you. Everyone should feel comfortable with themselves. Strip down to your birthday suit and study your body, remembering God created you. Then caress yourself, kiss the parts you can, and fall in love with you. In addition, state, “I love me, just the way I am,” several times.

Our mission at The Romance Café is for individuals to love themselves, feeling comfortable in the skin they’re in. If you put yourself on a pedestal others will. Learn to cater to you. Be sexy for you. When you please yourself you can please others. Always remember, self fulfillment begins within.

Exercise, eat right, rest, and live a happy, stress free life for you…

LeBlanc, author of "Taste of Lust"
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HPV & Cervical Cancer

Did you know that every 47 minutes, a woman in the United States is diagnosed with cervical cancer? In the US, cervical cancer is the second leading cause of cancer-related death in women between the ages of 20 and 39.

The cervix is important during pregnancy. It helps keep the baby in the uterus until the time of delivery. Cervical cancer and its treatment may affect a woman's ability to have a baby.

Cervical cancer is caused by human papillomavirus (HPV). There are many types of HPV, but only certain types can cause cervical cancer. HPV is generally passed from person to person through sexual activity. HPV infections are very common, and most women are exposed to HPV when they begin having sex. HPV infections often clear on their own. However, if the infection doesn't clear on its own, over time it could develop into cervical cancer.

Prevention is important because you might be infected with a cancer-causing HPV type and have no symptoms. You may not even know you are infected. This can put you at risk for more serious stages of cervical cancer later on.

The Romance Café is a strong advocate for early detection and treatment of cervical cancer. We encourage you to protect yourself from cervical cancer. Talk to your healthcare provider today about ways to help prevent cervical cancer, including: getting vaccinated against the HPV types that cause cervical cancer, having regular Pap tests, and lifestyle changes.

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Job Opportunities with The Romance Cafe?

What is The Romance Cafe? A question that many may ask. The Romance Cafe is a home party business that sells elegant lingerie from sizes small to 4X, and intimate products. Our company is designed to empower individuals to be comfortable with themselves, educate America on safe sex, and at the same time, provide a means to supplement their income. Our goals are to strengthen relationships by introducing unique methods that revitalize routine intimate encounters.

People all over are searching to become a part of a team that offers something new and innovative, but with the sense of family intertwined and The Romance Cafe has just that. We've even developed a means for those who just don't have business investment money to start their own business in this challenging economy.

Welcome, The Romance Cafe into your home, business, fundraiser event (bridal shower, book club meeting, social group function, divorce party, couples party, ladies night out, birthday party, anniversary, health forum, spiritual retreat, and more), or become an independent consultant. Begin a rewarding career with the Romance Cafe where you're the boss, make money while having fun, and empower women.

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Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Published Author

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