Only I can make me Happy

You saw me happy. Happiness you just couldn't stand. You thought you were the source of my happiness, but to your surprise you were not. Only I can make me happy.

You see, I love me. I love me from head to toe, inside and out. When I look in the mirror I smile. Only I can make me happy.


Dont fret, you'll find someone else's happiness to control, but not mine. I'm free from you, and free from the world's definition of happiness. I do the things that bring me true joy. I live in the moment with no regrets. And if it doesn't feel good to me, I don't partake in it. You see, its all about me. Only I can make me happy.


My happiness is here to stay, so if you're waiting for it to leave, you might as well go away. I changed the way I think, changed the things I say, changed the material I read, and changed the people I surround myself with. I have a true, positive transformation with a new outlook on life. You see, I love me. Only I can make me happy.

~Love yourself first and keep it happy.

Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Published Author, Business Owner, Motivational Speaker

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Romance Cafe Appreciation Christmas Dinner

The Romance Cafe met a Jubans Creole Restaurant in Baton Rouge, Louisiana for an appreciation dinner for local consultants. Guest consisted of Baton Rouge area consultants, one special guest, and Kirkland Randall of Kryptonian Fotos was the photographer for the night.

Consultants showed up in their Christmas colors and santa hats bearing gifts for unknown recepients for dirty santa game. Each guest received a complimentary dinner which consisted of ceaser salad, two entree choices: Grilled Pork Chop or Stuffed Chicken Breast, Seafood Dressing, Sauted String Beans, Cheese Cake with Praline Sauce, and a personalized bottle of wine; everything sponsored by The Romance Cafe. Special gift baskets valued at $200 were presented to Ursula Grigsby, Romance Cafe Training Coordinator and Francheska Felder, consultant of the month, who was not in attendance.

The night ended with Dirty Santa. Every guest that bought a wrapped gift picked a number and selected a gift from the table or had the chance to steal from someone else. The game started out innocent. No one stole, until Toya Davis, Romance Cafe consultant, elected to fire things up. The game was loads of fun; items from Bettysville purses, silver chains, and zebra make-up bags where amongst the gifts stolen. However, the very last gift was a Coach clutch. I think Erica Smith, Romance Cafe consultants, and Ursula Grigsby, Romance Cafe Training Coordinator are still fighting over it.

Great conversation, delicious food, Christmas games, gifts, and pictures by the tree. Oh what fun!

Merry Christmas from The Romance Cafe.

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Good Girls Don't Go all the Way

"No pussy for you," is what I prided myself on. "If I keep this good, tight, plump, juicy coochie to myself I can't get hurt. I'm keeping my emotions in my pocket." I didn't want him to touch me, didn't want any type of intimacy, and didn't want to love, because good girls don't go all the way. Good girls kept there goodies to themselves. "My vagina is sacred, and no parts of you are going in it, unless I say so." You see I had to control it all, wouldn't let the natural...just take place, because good girls don't go all the way.

Yes, I let some great ones pass my way. They were handsome, respected me, loved me, I have to say, but good girls didn't go all the way. Big ones, long ones, full of girth, none of that mattered, I knew my worth. I had to fight my feelings and stick to my gun, because good girls couldn't have that much fun. I was young, free, and ready to do the deeds, but what would people think of me?

I released a little of my control, allowing the body to take hold. "Let him taste it if you must, but don't allow your feelings to digest too much, because good girls don't go all the way." What a selfish lover I was, I have to admit. I'd sit there and let him eat me without a simple touch. "You can look, you can reminsce about it in your mind, and I may let you taste it, but good girls don't go all the way."



"Sometimes I taste myself, because good girls go all the way..."

Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Author of Taste of Lust, CEO, Co-Founder of The Romance Cafe

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Are you Afraid to Love?

"I see" myself in a new light.. such a beautiful light. I recognize that "I am” the source of my happiness. The more “I love”, the safer “I am”. “I go” beyond anyone's limitations or destructive criticism of me. Most of us have such a strong habit of judgment and criticism of others that they cannot see through "breaking the habit." Criticism breaks down the inner spirit and never seems to change a thing only creating anger, self hatred, and neglect. You know “I feel” we have a choice between LOVE and FEAR. Most fear change, fear of not changing, fear of taking a chance, fear of not taking a chance, fear of loving, fear of not loving, fear of intimacy and then fear of being alone. We have a fear of letting people know what we need genuinely, and who we are. Then here is the big one...the fear of letting go of the past! Then on the other hand we have love. Love is the miracle of life! Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives, and “I am” not speaking of vanity or of being arrogant or full of ourselves; that is not love. That is a form of being afraid as well. “I am reflecting on the love of having the utmost respect for self and gratitude for everything around you, realizing the world is a reflection of you. One thing “I have” learned is to FEEL the fear and DO IT ANYWAY..GO right INTO IT and THROUGH IT! As “I grow” and fine tune “my best” only gets better. I have accepted that “my decisions” and “my lessons” are always perfect for me and that “I will always express and attract LOVE wherever “I GO” and “IN” whatever “I DO”.

Tasha Dangerfield, LC, CEO, Co-Founder

The Romance Cafe

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Sexy Like Me

What is sexy? Sexy is everything you posess. Its your style, your signature, the way you walk, the way you express yourself, sexy is simply you. When you truly learn to love yourself you can create a new, sexy you. Have fun loving the things you hated in the past. Appreciate you for who you are now and work on the things you want to change. I'm stressing, gratitude is one of the keys to life, therefore you must be grateful for the person who stands before you in the mirror. God doesn't make junk or imperfections, it is crucial that you remember this. Make a song, post it on notes, yell it out loud. "I am beautiful!" "I Love me! "I am sexy!"





On your journey to sexiness, remember to keep it happy.





Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Published Author, CEO


The Romance Cafe





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Stand in the Mirror Naked

Do you want to re-create you? Re-invent you? Make you over? Well, its time for change. Everyday we look in the mirror and we complain about the person who stands before us. I'm too short... I'm too tall...I'm too stout...I'm too skinny...my nose is too big...my thighs jiggle.. I have three stomachs...my hair is a mess...my skin is blemished...I'm too dark...I'm too light...,and I'm not pretty or handsome, are amongst the many self criticizing statements made daily.

Let me be the first to challenge you to change your way of thinking. The first step is to be happy with who you are. Start by loving the things you hate. Stand in the mirror naked, and kiss your flaws goodbye. Replace your negative remarks with positive uplifting affirmations. For example, instead of saying, "I'm fat," state, "I'm the most sexy, voluptuous woman alive." You've got to do the work - from inside. When you change your perception of you everything else will fall right into place. Remember you are your biggest self-critic and if you don't love yourself who will?

Talk to you soon and don't forget to keep it happy.

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Karlyn LeBlanc, LMSW, Author, CEO
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The Romance Cafe Spreads Love

TO THE MIND THAT IS STILL, THE WHOLE UNIVERSE SURRENDERS
- LAO-TSU

I had to laugh..while sitting here thinking about the day...How can you just figure a person doesn’t like you if you don’t really have any dealings with them? How can a person have so much to say about you and what they think happens in your life...when they are not even included in your life or thought about in a day?? Why would people take time out of their life to wonder if you have money or not, what house you live in..if you have happiness or not. They just up and decide to have a problem with the way you carry yourself...the things you do, the places you go...the stuff you buy; smile in your face, but have malicious intent or envy inside for you. How can one be so quick to judge, talk, and spread lies...lol? When it would be so much easier to deal with truth. If you wanna know about me ask me..trust i will give you the MY TRUTH:). Soooooo on that note for all the people that have had so much to say about me let ME help you out... I love myself inside and out; therefore I do what I truly enjoy. LIFE LOVES ME AND I LOVE IT!! I AM GRATEFUL FOR GODS FAVOR ON ME. I have a job that I TRULY enjoy doing. It is one that uses my creative talents and abilities in a surprising way; enlightening “OTHERS”. I have moved into my greater good, I stand tall and free! I love working WITH and FOR the people “I LOVE AND WHO LOVES ME”. I am protected by something larger than ego. I earn a great income and it allows me to be a blessing to myself, my family as well as others. I always have what I need and then some:). God has a way of putting what I need in my path, and I humblily accept, for the supply is endless. I LOVE MYSELF; therefore, I behave and think in the way in which I want things to return to me. I attract loving people in MY WORLD, for they are a reflection of ME! I AM AWARE THAT I CREATE MY OWN EXPERIENCES..I CHOOSE NOT TO LET ANYONE ELSE CREATE THEM FOR ME...LIFE IS GOOD! LET ME LET YOU IN ON SOMETHING...”WE ARE MEANT TO BE DIFFERENT”. When YOU accept this, then there is NO COMPARISION and NO COMPETITION”. Hopefully you can take a real look at yourself now...cause I have.. I have long released others opinions. I APPROVE OF MYSELF...#LIVING DELIBERATELY. SMOOCHES...~ TASHA BROWN DANGERFIELD ~

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I AFFIRM WHO I AM

I affirm that I am grateful! I am happy, loving, healthy, beautiful, and prosperous! I will continue my journey of learning who I am and loving myself. I am free from judgement of others and stereotypes. I will be wild and adventurous whenever I want to be. Joy, peace, positive energy, and love surrounds me. I embrace all of me - my physical, emotional, and psychological states. I stand firm in my belief that negativity from others is not about me - IT'S THEM!

~Editha Brown, Romance Cafe Consultant & Motivational Speaker


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Merry Christmas from The Romance Cafe

Give love today and always.
Allow the spirit of Christmas to be with you today and always. Love you first and then others. Remember happiness begins within. Live life to the fullest, pursue your dreams, and create your existence. Keep a positive mind and the riches will follow.
Wishing you good health, wealth, great success, love, peace, prosperity and true happiness...


The Romance Cafe is walking in millions this holiday season. The Romance Cafe is one of the fastest growing "fun party" home businesses. We specialize in elegant lingerie, bedroom costumes, and romance novelties. Our sizes cater to all women from small to 4X. We believe all women are sexy no matter what size, shape, color or age they are.

Our company takes pride in empowering, building self-esteem, and inspiring others to love themselves and pursue their dreams. The Romance Cafe is also an advocate for safe sex and long healthy marriages. We employ thousands of individuals across the country that work as an extension of our business; delivering our core values and concepts while earning a substantial income. Working as a consultant for The Romance Cafe is more than a job it’s a fulfilling career and a great adventure. In addition, as a consultant, you will have the opportunity to travel, participate in photo shoots, win free prizes, and speak at community events.

The Romance Cafe is walking in millions and so can you. Join our power team of consultants today. Start making the money you want and deserve.

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The Trees are Beautiful and so are You

Have you looked at the trees lately? I walk daily, but I never paid attention to the trees until I started my journey on gratitude. Appreciation for nature and the things around you are crucial in finding true happiness. When you truly love yourself you are grateful for you and everything in your circle; nature appears brand new. The simple things in life like singing birds, green grass, and trees catch your eye.

I watched the wind blow through the branches on a unique tree with few leaves and I thought to myself, "how beautiful." Then I noticed the tree planted next to the first one I observed. It was the same tree but it was shorter. The next tree was taller and the leaves were fuller. We are like trees. All of us are the same beautiful specie, but different. Love yourself and respect the unique qualities you possess.

Appreciate nature. Appreciate life. Appreciate the uniqueness that you bring. Love yourself.

~LeBlanc author of "Taste of Lust"
~CEO The Romance Cafe



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The Romance Cafe Appreciates You

I woke up this morning, thank you Lord. Gratitude is flowing through my head. I appreciate life and I'm thankful for the people and things in my circle. Life is amazing now. I realize that gratitude is the key to happiness, love, success, and prosperity. When you can totally be appreciative for what you have (the small simple things that we usually take for granted) your life will flourish and you will be blessed with more.


Begin each day with gratitude. Wake up and start thanking God for all the things you are grateful for. Make an ABUNDANCE list. Write down 50 things you are thankful for. For example, I am grateful, for the sun shining on my arms, my daughter's smiling face, hot water, a home with air condition, a healthy body, ect... Being thankful for where you are in your life will bring a smile to your face. It will change your thinking too. Focusing on all the blessings in your life leaves no room for negativity. Remember you can't be grateful and unhappy at the same time.


Another part of gratitude is giving. When you can give without expecting anything in return you are truly displaying gratitude. When you give it comes back to you, your blessings triple. Try doing some of these simple acts of kindness:
1)Pay for some ones meal at McDonald's.
2)Leave a huge tip after dinner.
3)Hold the door open for a stranger.
4)Give compliments.
5)Smile and offer comforting words.
6)Pay the toll for a stranger behind you in line.
7)Pay for some ones groceries.
8)Buy lunch for a friend or stranger.
9)Send someone a drink.
10)Buy a friend their favorite candy bar or chips.
11)Tell everyone you appreciate them and incorporate thanking individuals in advance.


Implement gratitude in your life and watch success implant itself on you.


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The Romance Cafe is a home party business (fun parties) that sells elegant lingerie, bedroom costumes (small to 4x) and romance novelties. We believe all women are sexy no matter what size, shape, age or color they are.
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~LeBlanc, the best selling author of "Taste of Lust."